Dear all,
I’ve changed the name of this blog to better reflect the works found within it.
The majority of the posts are still being written by me, seventh voice, but as always, guest authors are welcome.
Thank you for taking the time to read this blog.
On a slightly different matter, I thank all of those who took the time and effort to join the Women’s Asperger’s Syndrome Awareness Support Page on Facebook but please be aware that as of the end of July it will no longer exist.
Instead everything will be run through this blog.
So please feel free to comment or discuss with others, any of theย ideas you’ve expressed on my Facebook page in the same way via this blog.
When I first started blogging, I had absolutely no intention of creating an Asperger’s Syndrome / Autism only focused blog, yet that is exactly what I have created and so many of the other things that I like to write about now seem so out-of-place on here.
So I’ve started a new blog called “What in the Weird?” to express all of the other things that I like to write about,(like contradictions, e-bay, The Dead Files, TV, Movies, Books ) that I haven’t shared on this blog as they aren’t Autism related.
So feel free to have a read of that one at some point in time.
Thank you.
something for you – http://betweenpoles.wordpress.com/2012/06/06/my-you-can-do-so-many-things-p/
Hey, I like what you’re about and I appreciate your positive feedback, so I’ve nominated you for the Thanks For Writing award!
http://cloudborne.wordpress.com/
Congratulations to you on your well deserved awards and thank you so much for your kindness in sharing one with me. I am honored = )
I read a few posts, and I know I will be back to read them all you have. Most of all, one post stands out and hit hard…”letter to myself in 20 yrs” many times i felt a same way, but never had the chance to write it down, mainly b/c I started crying uncontrollably.
You are a wonderful mother a wonderful human being. God bless you.
Thank you so much for your kind words. All any of us can ever hope to do is to improve our children’s lives. For some that means buying a bigger house, or providing the best education that money can buy. But there are some of us out there for whom the goals are somewhat less grand but still somehow more personally immense. I thank you so much for your support. Blessings to you too.
Thanks for following “Swords, Specters, & Stuff.” I hope you continue to enjoy my “diverse” posts. ๐
I wanted to nominate you for the “one lovely blog award”. I think you are fantastic and i like reading your posts. you can accept the honor and share seven things about yourself in a post… thanks for the sunshine! with love, Aarthi.
http://sickocean.wordpress.com/2012/11/11/one-lovely-blog-award-for-me/
Thank you Aarthi. What an honor and congratulations to you for receiving this award. Sending much love to you for sharing it with me. Cheers 7th.
Hi,
I have nominated you for an award. Details are over at http://anautismdad.wordpress.com/2012/11/14/award-for-anautismdad/
Congratulations on receiving this award and immense gratitude for sharing the joy with me. I am honored to have been nominated by you. Thank you so much = )
I have tagged you for the Liebster award ๐ http://aspie-dk.blogspot.dk/2013/03/liebster-award.html
Wow… Thank you. What an honor!!!!!!! ๐
I like your blog. Eclecticity is great! Thanks for following my blog as well.
Cheers to you ๐
Looking forward to catching up on your blog, I think I will enjoy it immensely.
Thank you Trinity. I hope you enjoy it ๐
thanks for dropping by my blog.
love your writings and look forward to reading more ๐
much love from one autism parent to another!
xx
Thank you Candidcoma. Much love to you too x.
Hello, Mae,
Browsing through your postings gives me the sense of a human being fully engaged in her life, and fighting back against the urge to abandon the hope for a better life. In this regard, we are similarly engaged, but the amount of strength and resolve required for you to face your life are far greater than most people ever need to conjure. That you continue to do so inspires us all.
When anyone with your degree of talent and powerful motivation for writing gives attention to my blog, while it is a gift which I strive to earn with every entry, it always feels somewhat mysterious to me, and like many writers, I often secretly wonder how it could be that our words resonate for each other.
Human consciousness is a fundamental aspect of our humanity, and one that is essential in recognizing our inseparability from every other spirit born in the world. How it is even possible that humans can be so empathetic and caring in one place, and so disconnected and callous in another remains even more mysterious yet.
The great German writer, Goethe once wrote:
“The true locus of beauty is not in the intellect or in reason, but in natural feeling and passion.”
Your natural feeling and passion are testimony that Goethe was right.
With appreciation…..John H.
Thank you so much for your amazingly beautiful words of both acknowledgment and encouragement. They are truly appreciated.
AnElephantCant think of anything clever to say
This happens time after time
But he wants you to know
That he likes you and so
He says hello with this silly rhyme
I love your rhymes.
Your sense of time,
Though this is a skill,
I sometimes lack,
In my own silly words,
I say hello to you,
Right back.
Your writings give me so much pleasure, hope & inspiration. I cannot thank you enough!
Thank you so much for your amazingly gorgeous and encouraging comment. You have made my entire week ๐
Thank-you for visiting my blog and following. All the best to you. Renee ๐
Thank you for visiting my blog seventh……may I ask where you are from?
Hello there. I’m from Australia.
Hi, and thanks for the follow! I noticed you started following Writing at Midnight after I posted my last post, “Bibliomancy”. I just wanted to make sure that you saw that this blog, Writing at Midnight, has been discontinued (though none of the old posts will be deleted in case anyone found them useful.) My new blog is at alisonjmckenzie.wordpress.com. If you had intentionally followed the discontinued blog, that’s fine, but I thought I’d double check.
Thanks Lynxchild. No it wasn’t intentional so I will check out your new blog.
Thanks so much for visiting and following my blog! I appreciate it very much. I’ve enjoyed my visit here and look forward to following your posts. ๐
You are so very welcome and thank you for being kind enough to visit my humble little blog home as well ๐
“Thought pirate.”
What a cool phrase. I promise not to be one, but it’s phrase one itches to appropriate because it’s so smart! ๐
Thank you. I am indeed planning to use it again…. I agree with you…. I loved the phrase as soon as I came up with it and yes it certainly does beg to be used again.
Good for you — exactly the right guidelines for sharing without exploitation. And… thank you for choosing to follow my blog
Thank you icelandpenny. I’m looking forward to reading more of your blog.
Thank you for following me and checking out my blog. Your blog looks wonderful, and I’m excited to look around.
You are so very welcome Mariasmillios and thank you for taking the time to drop me a line and have a look around my blog:)
Thank you for following HoB. Much appreciated! I’ll be hanging around here…
You are so very welcome Hermon. I look forward to reading more of you blogs. Cheers 7th
You and I started blogging at just about the same time. I look forward to reading more here. I’m very interested in Asperger Syndrome, and it looks like you are very knowledgeable. I look forward to getting better acquainted. ๐
Thanks for dropping by my blog. I shall have a wander around yours – looks interesting.
Thank you Be Well And Be Happy and you are so very welcome ๐
Hi, thanks for the visiting and following my blog. All the best, I look forward to reading more here.
Thank you Sky. Cheers, I look forward to reading more or your blog too ๐
thankyou for stopping by ……so glad to meet you ๐
You too Srijana Kattel ๐
I love your blog!
That’s why I nominated you for the Super Sweet Blog Award.
Check out my blog (http://clumsyfool.wordpress.com/) for the rules and more information. ๐
Oh wow…. Thank you so much….. Love it……I am honoured by your kindness xx
You are very welcome! xx
Thank you for following my blog :). I really appreciate it!
There is absolutely nothing wrong with having an eclectic blog. In a way mine is all over the place, main reason I named my blog Family, Friends And Everything In Between.
I look forward to reading your posts ( I am following your blog too )!
Take care!
Because you got me hooked on your amazing blog, I nominated you for The Versatile Blogger Award. For More information check out my page: http://clumsyfool.wordpress.com/2013/05/08/the-versatile-blogger-award/.
Good luck!
Hi I wanted to let you know that I nominated you for the Super Sweet Blogger Award. Here’s the link to my post about it http://littlewhitescale.wordpress.com/2013/05/14/super-sweet-blogger-award/
Thank you so, so, much for the nomination and a big sweet congratulations to you ๐
You’re welcome ๐
Reading your blog has inspired me to continue writing, so Iโve nominated you for a Very Inspiring Blogger Award!
The rules for receiving this award are:
1. Display the award logo on your blog.
2. Link back to the person who nominated you.
3. State 7 things about yourself.
4. Nominate 15 other bloggers for this award and link to them.
5. Notify those bloggers of the nomination and the awardโs requirements.
Thank you so very much Mimi…. I am honored…… and congratulations to you for being such an inspiring blogger in your own right (write). ๐
I really like your space and I hope you will not mind for nominating you for The Versatile Blogger Award ( http://skyvani.wordpress.com/2013/05/27/the-versatile-blogger-award/ )
Sky
Thankyou for being so kind to my son…at autisticandproud.wordpress.com
Helen …
Your posts are beautifully written, courageous and inspiring. Thank you for your visit and follow at art rat cafe, I am truly honoured…
You are so very welcome and thank you for your kind words.
Hey there!
I think your blog is GREAT and i would love to include this blog in the ASD Communities’ list of brilliant Autism blogs! all the information is on this link – http://asdcommunity1.wordpress.com/2013/09/24/calling-all-bloggers/
All the best!
I would be honored to have my blog included on your list. Thank you so much for including me.
I just added you to my blogroll ๐ Though my audience is small, I find it a great reference for me. I focus on Asperger’s bloggers and resources. My middle child 6 yr old boy is dx’d Aspie, I am undiagnosed and My 3 yr old is going through evals now. ๐ It’s quite a journey. I am very interested in following asper- moms right now, since I find it a struggle. Thanks for sharing ๐ http://dailyamazed.blogspot.com/
hello, i get your blog. i have aspergers, i take part in a lot lot research from universities
if you would like a chat please do
mark e,mail mkentdad12@outlook.com
Thanks for the follow, wishing you all the best:-)
Hello! I wanted to let you know that I have nominated you for several Awards. Congratulations! If you are an Award Free Blog, please simply accept my appreciation of the inspiration you share and the support you have shown me. Should you choose to accept the awards, the criteria and acceptance info can be found here: http://booknvolume.com/2013/11/10/ta-in-other-words/
Thank you so much Morgan. I am honored ๐
๐ Entirely deserved ๐
Dear Seventh,
When I found your blog I found myself crying, uncontrollably, for twenty minutes. After raising a beautiful, brilliant, unique, and loving boy with Aspergers for almost 16 years (without officially having him diagnosed for fear of labeling and tracking) I have found a place in which the dignity and special superpowers that Aspergers engenders has been recognized. Forever grateful. LOVE.
Rena your words are so beautiful and powerful. I’m so glad that you feel supported here โค to you and your beautiful son x
P.s. His middle name is Seven.
Oh wow…. ๐
Stumbled across your blog and have enjoyed your words. I am now following.
I have nominated you for the Most Influential Blogger Award. Please know that You Inspire me, whether or not you choose to accept and pay forward the award. Should you feel inclined to do so, however, the how and why info can be found here: http://booknvolume.com/2013/11/24/the-quill/
Thank you so much Morgan for your kind words and the nomination. I am honored โค
You are entirely welcome ๐
As an as-yet-undiagnosed Aspergian, I can only begin to express what a positive effect your blog has had on my life since I discovered it two weeks ago. Your perspective, your presentation, and the incredibly enlightening testimonies generated in the comments sections have all proven tremendously enlightening to me, to my partner, and to my immediate family. I understand so much more about myself, and other undiagnosed Aspergians in my life, thanks to you. Your blog has inspired me not only to schedule neurocognitive testing but to open up publicly about the devastating effects a seemingly dismissive initial evaluation had on my self-image. The knowledge I gained from your posts on empathy, the plight of undiagnosed adults, and adaptation techniques that cause AS to be frequently overlooked in women have given me the confidence to pursue a more definitive diagnosis than the one I received before. I hope the piece I have written about my experience up to now speaks to this impact, and that it may provide further insight for fellow Aspies fighting skepticism in the pursuit of a diagnosis. (http://robertjeffrey.blogspot.com/2014/03/i-honestly-know-me-evaluation-of_29.html)
Thank you so, so, so much, on behalf of my partner and my family and I, and untold millions, for the gift you have given to us all through the work you put into this blog. I send best wishes, and undying gratitude, to you and to your family! โค
Thank you so much Robert for taking the time to share you kind words with me. I’m so pleased that the articles and experiences that I’ve shared on my blog page have added to your world. Wishing you much support. Cheers Seventh.
Great articles. I have added your blog to the Resources section of my blog,www.reprobatemum.com
Thank you so much ๐
I very much enjoy your blog. I wish to thank you, as well, for liking one of my poems.
Thank you Kevin and you are so very welcome ๐
There is no support system in SE Michigan whatsoever for women with Aspergers…now support groups, no meetups within hundreds of miles, nothing. I am a 60 yr-old single female, diagnosed at age 57, although I knew I had some kind of autism since I was a kid. It was accompanied with a serious case of dyscalculia, and ADHD. I was also born with a severe jaw/skull deformity, which made me the target of extreme bullying, even as an adult. I would find trails of milk bones leading to my locker, and I could walk down the street in a strange town on vacation, and guys would walk up to me and start barking like a crazed dog. I even had a boss in the 1980’s who would see my face, and scream, as if to pretend he was mortified by my countenance. My nick names were never nice. They were Troll (via my Stepmother), mud dog, pit bull, bulldog, barracuda, Neanderthal bitch, freak face, monster, and the list goes on. I decided to never reproduce, as it would be unfair. The neurological effects have been just as devastating. I am so sensitive to everything, from heat to cold to sounds, things that are itchy, like tags in clothing, and bright lights. I cannot read non-verbal cues at all. There have probably been hundreds of chances to make friends which I missed, because I cannot tell when I’m being picked on, and criticized, as opposed to just being invited to engage in some good-natured verbal play. It didn’t help that I had no siblings, or even cousins close to my age to practice development of any kind of social skills. My ADHD didn’t help, with the inability to read non-verbal cues. My other nick names were motor mouth, and jackhammer jaws. It’s not that I never shut up. Most of the time, I remain withdrawn, and mute. When I do talk, however, my nasally voice is such a turn off, that people have said that my voice is more irritating than feedback from a PA system, or chalk dragged across a blackboard. So now, I don’t even try anymore. Nothing truly good has ever happened in the last 60 years. Now, my Mom has cancer, and I must face this terrible reality alone. I need a friend. I need support, and no matter where I turn, and what I do, there is nothing, not even a long-distance voice on the phone from another who understands. Most of us who are high-functioning Aspies do not go on to be an Einstein, or a Bill Gates. Most of us languish in eternal solitary confinement until we die, totally and utterly alone. For women on the spectrum, it’s not like we were born on the wrong planet, it’s like we were born in the wrong universe. I exist, but merely on a cellular level. I have feelings, but in real life, I am only a ghost that nobody wants to see.
Icky Vickie
Love your blog, just found it. I have started one as an Aspergian raising an Aspergian son in a NT world. Keep on writing. TY
Thank you. I look forward to reading your blog ๐
So happy to have found my way to your blog, I look forward to exploring. Like you, I am on the spectrum as well and have two boys, now 25 and 22 with ASD. Thanks for sharing your world . . ,
My adult son was misdiagnosed as having ADHD at a very young age but I did not see the obvious signs of ASD until his older sister started teaching kids with special needs. He is 27 now with a good job, after flunking out of college twice.
Peace ~ Bear